Why You Should Stop Playing The No-Sex Blame Game
Keeping score in general isn’t good
Keeping score of any type in a relationship isn’t healthy. Once you start keeping score, it means you have gotten into the mindset of, “How do I put the responsibility on my partner, and how do I get out of putting in the work?” That’s never helpful. Whether it’s about cleaning the apartment or initiating sex, you should come at it with the mindset of, “I want to be helpful and make things easy for my partner.”