Why You Should Stop Playing The No-Sex Blame Game
It brings into question desire
Playing this blame game is also a form of suggesting that your partner simply doesn’t desire you anymore. If your entire goal in the conversation is to prove that your partner has been trying to get out of sex, then what you are saying is that he doesn’t desire you anymore. That’s a painful concept. Even if he tries to convince you with his words that he still desires you, that won’t satisfy you.