The Value Of Having A Mother Figure Who Isn’t Your Mom
Real moms jump to concern
Your real mother can sort of sour the experience of sharing good news by coming in with concern. Rather than mirroring your enthusiasm for the news, she may immediately bring up potential problems. “Well how’s the neighborhood where you got the house? Is it safe?” or “Are you sure that job is right for you?” Moms can’t help but worry, but sometimes it can ruin the experience of sharing good news.