Why Wedding Planning Breaks Up Couples
Financial differences pop up
You learn a lot about what someone values, based on how he spends his money. You’ll learn about this every single day while planning a wedding. Maybe one person would rather go with the really casual, cheap caterer, if it means affording having more loved ones at the wedding. Maybe the other person wants the fancy, expensive caterer in order to impress the guests and create some illusion of status, even if that means having to cut the guest list substantially to afford it. Just there you learned that one values relationships and the other values status. Uh oh.