How To Get Better At Setting Boundaries
A real no is better than a fake yes
Let’s say you tell someone she is welcome to your holiday party, even though you don’t like this person and don’t want to pursue a friendship. That’s just a fake yes. But a real no is always better then a fake yes. Don’t set someone’s expectations up when you don’t plan on delivering. You’ll only ignore this person if she’s at your party. It’s better to give a real no.