Everyone loves the warmth of another body, someone that makes you feel secure in who you are and provides affection. While you can get these things from many different places, very often you find yourself looking for them in a man’s arms. There’s nothing wrong with this in of itself but there is something wrong with needing a man to feel secure in who you are. Likewise, the need for love and affection should not keep you in a relationship that’s going nowhere.

These kinds of insecurities make it all too easy to hold on to Mr. “Right Now” or continually “work through” someone who continually lies or cheats. All the while, you’re missing countless opportunities to find someone truly worthy of being your man. Why not be single and give your self time to find him. Better still, strike out on your own and work on finding yourself.

Sometimes we’re unsure if what we have is a good thing. But there are always signs to look out for. If any of the following ring a bell, you should definitely give being single some strong consideration.