Dealing With A Family Who Isn’t Good For You
Stop trying to change them
I’ve got news for you: if your 70-year-old father has yet to realize that he always dates possessive and paranoid women, or your just-as-old mother doesn’t realize that she has a victim mentality and never takes responsibility for her own happiness, they never will. It’s hard for people to change the entire way they look at life and their relationships when they’re old. Stop wasting energy trying to change them.