If you’re a little old-fashioned, if you like to follow the rules, or if you have a conscience too big for your own good, then you probably only date one guy at a time. You’ve probably even met someone you were interested in, while you were casually seeing someone else, and turned down a date with him because of the other guy. But you’d only been out with the other guy a few times! You didn’t owe him anything! And then things didn’t even work out with him, so then you really regretted not going out with guy number two. Don’t make that same mistake again. Just because you’ve been out with someone a few times and things are going well doesn’t mean you should shut yourself off to connections you feel with other men. In fact, dating multiple men at a time could help you understand your connection with each man better. Here is why you should date several men at once to find the one.
It boosts your confidence
Do you want to feel the biggest confidence boost you’ve ever felt? Date several guys at once. You can’t help but feel like hot sh*t when you’re having dinner with one man, and confirming brunch plans with another on your phone. If you have confidence issues when it comes to dating, seeing several men at once could help. And when you’re confident, you attract better guys. You attract guys who are going to treat you well, because you emanate the vibe, “I deserve the best.”