Signs You Have A Victim Mentality
You keep track of the good things you do for others
Victims also keep track of all of the good things they’ve done for others. Why? They didn’t necessarily do those things out of the kindness of their heart but rather to reaffirm that they are good and everybody else is bad. They remember every person they’ve ever done a favor for and now watch that person closely to see if they “deserved” that favor.