Boys to Men: Are you training your boyfriend to be somebody’s husband?
When situations like this occur the ex-girlfriend is usually livid and feels as if she wasn’t “good” enough to marry especially after all those years. Feelings of despair, inadequacy, doubt and hate fill her heart as she tries to comprehend where she went wrong and why she was not the one receiving the return on her investment. Her “ring the alarm” attitude can quickly become ‘’I broke the windows in your car” rage if she is not careful. But ladies I’m here to tell you that while it may be unfortunate that your relationship didn’t work out and end in marriage like you may have wanted, the lesson in the whole thing is priceless – if you ever feel like you are giving and doing too much in a relationship, take a step back and ask yourself is it worth it? Make sure you are not doing a “job” you are not getting “paid” for if you know what I mean. I know this is hard to do when you love someone, but you must love yourself much more.
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