Defense Mechanisms That Are Bad For Your Relationship
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Julia Austin
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Accelerating his comments
If your partner gives you one note—one critique on something he wished you wouldn’t do, or something he wished you’d do differently—you may try to get ahead of him and start listing off other things that are terrible and wrong with you. It’s a way to get him to stop criticizing you because you’re doing it enough for the two of you.
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