You’ll have no problem finding people who are happy to be there for you when things are light, fun and easy. This is true for all types of relationships, but it’s especially true for romantic ones. Since your romantic partner is usually more tuned in to and connected to your life than the other people in it, they get the highest from your highs. But your romantic partner will also get the lowest of your lows, because (hopefully) they stay by your side during those times. If you really want to see what kind of partner a man can be, see how he reacts when things get tough. And don’t make excuses for him because, honestly, even if you can understand why a man would bail would things were tough, that doesn’t make it any easier when he does. Here are real life issues that immature men run from.
You need to dive into your career
If you’re changing careers, trying to start a business, or just trying to get ahead in your line of work, you’ll probably need to devote more time to work. It’s only natural that you won’t have as much time to stay up late drinking bottles of wine on a weeknight. Life becomes a little more business than pleasure for a while.