There’s a tragic phenomenon happening in the dating world: kind, caring and thoughtful women are being made to believe that they’re too needy, that they come off as desperate, or that they’re downright creepy for showing interest in a man. Granted, there is something to be said for holding back a little when you’re just getting to know somebody. Nobody should blow grand gestures on a first date since most first dates go nowhere. But if it’s been established that a guy is into you, and he has even gone out of his way to do thoughtful things for you, you should feel no qualms about showing a little TLC. If you’re a woman who is constantly thinking of others but is constantly dumped, don’t let anybody tell you that you came on too strong. You aren’t the problem; the problem is the guys you’re dating. You’re mature enough to know that kindness and generosity are important in a relationship, so date men who are mature enough to appreciate that. Here are 15 caring gestures that only scare off immature men.