The Big Relationship Question: Where Is This Going?

One Month:  The ‘Getting To Know You’ Phase

If you and your new boo have been talking consecutively, by now you should at least know the basics of who is he, what he does, and where he wants to go in life. Mainly, where does he work, or does he even have a job? If he doesn’t have a job, does he want one? Is he ambitious or way to laid back to take seriously?

And while you probably won’t have met his family unless he’s one of those types, you should know if he has siblings, was he raised in a two-parent home or if he’s a mama’s boy.

Simply put, the first month you should know the basics of who you’re dealing with. Most importantly, you should know if he has a girlfriend…or a wife!

In return, he should know these things about you. If he hasn’t bothered to inquire, he may not be interested. In which, you may want to consider this a red flag and take the situation a little less serious.