The Big Relationship Question: Where Is This Going?

Six Months: The “Where Is This Going” Phase

Dating someone for six months can be tricky. For instance, while you don’t have to be in a relationship just yet, you should both be sure you’re on the same page, or at least in the same chapter.  If you’ve mentally decided that you want to be in a relationship with him, by six months you should have had the infamous talk…”Where is this going?”

By now if you’re seriously dating, his friends should know about you. If you meet his best friend and he looks at you as if you’re some random girl that was brought home from the club, it may be okay to feel uneasy. Men talk just as women do. If he hasn’t mentioned you to his closest friends, then you may not be dating as seriously as you thought.

Of course, everyone and every relationship is different; but if you haven’t even been worth a mention to his closest friends after six months, consider this a red flag.