Be Very Afraid: First Date Red Flags
Not looking for a relationship
It’s 2011, who the hell is? My older sister has some very interesting advice that she shares with her close friends: Listen. Listen to what a man is saying. Watch his actions but listen to what he’s saying in the beginning because we brothas often tell on ourselves. If by the end of the first date the one thing you know for sure is how much this brother does not want a relationship, chuck up the deuces. You may not be ready for a relationship yet either, but was that the main topic of conversation for you? No. This brother is telling on himself. He doesn’t want much from you and is closed off in a way that a few dates or months of FWB (friends with benefits) treatment is not going to cure. Save yourself some time and heartache and file him under “do not answer.”
