Be Very Afraid: First Date Red Flags
Unkempt brothas
Call me vain, but it’s not hard to get a shape-up, and it’s rather cheap; $10 on 146th and Amsterdam in Harlem to be specific. It’s the first date so the brother should look his best, because you only get one chance to make a first impression. A man who doesn’t care about his appearance should frighten you, because if he doesn’t care about himself or how he looks, how the hell can he care about you? By no means am I saying cut the brother off if he can’t afford a fitted Armani suit. But dusty, run-over kicks and questionable odors are very real reasons to get your best “Martin” impersonation on and say” GET TA STEPPIN!”