We Have No Interest In Being A Best-Kept Secret
Though we enjoy some one-on-one time, going out and meeting your friends and family is important. Especially after dating for a while. When you don’t take us to significant social events, it easily translates to you being embarrassed or ashamed to be seen in public with a plus-size woman. I’ve often heard men say they avoid taking their plus-size girlfriends around their friends to avoid rude or insensitive comments that may hurt her feelings. Though that sounds like you’re compassionate, it still translates as embarrassment. Plus-size women are strong, and many of us have heard every “fat” joke in the book. We want someone who is going to be proud enough to walk into a room with us on his arm and to stand up for us if we are disrespected. Reevaluate those friendships if you have people in your circle who would deliberately hurt the woman you are dating.