Things I Wish I Would Have Known When I Was In My 20s About Love, Relationships And Men
Never Change Your Plans To Be With A Man
There were so many times I planned to do things with my girls, or better yet, by myself, but as soon as a guy I was dating would call I instantly switched my plans. This was a mistake I quickly learned from. Canceling or even changing my plans wouldn’t bring him any closer to committing to me, and I realized that I need to have my own life outside of a man. This wasn’t an easy thing to do because any time a man I was dating wanted to see me of course I jumped at the chance because I wanted to see him just as much. However, changing my plans and making myself accessible to him whenever he wanted me to made me look easy and desperate. That is a no-no. Always keep the plans you’ve made, and if a man wishes to see you let him get in where he fits in.