No, no. We’re not suggesting you give out the ‘cookies’ like candy. Conveying the air of a “promise” of maybe, possibly, getting the kitty is what make men pant for bad girls day in and all night. In her survey, Lieberman’s male subjects almost unanimously said that sexual attraction put them–and kept them–in intense pursuit. But when it does come down to…ehem…doing ‘the do,’ knowing how to pleasure a man orally makes them putty in your hands. “Just like women want to feel beautiful, men what to feel powerful–and having a woman pleasuring their private parts is every man’s fondest desire.” says Lieberman.