Take a look at what you’re wearing now. What does it say about you? Lieberman says the way you dress tells a man more about you before you can have him at “hello.” “[It] conveys a message about how confident you are and how interested you are in attracting men,” she says. “The more effort you put into looking alluring, the more it tells men that you appreciate yourself and think you’re worth going to the trouble of being stylish and well put-together.”
So if your go-to outfit is a pair of sloppy sweat pants and your old university t-shirt, you might want to expand your closet, or better, get a stylist. Here’s a cheap tip: Shabby Apple, the brainchild of clothing designer, Athelia Woolley, makes the some of the classiest and figure-complementing dresses I’ve ever seen. Her site has a feature–”Shop by Body-Type”–that works like your very own personal stylist.
But before you spend a king’s ransom on a new wardrobe, take inventory of what you already have. Martha Tomazin, certified image consultant, gives free style tips on her site, marlatomazin.com.