Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Should I Date A Man With A Newborn Baby?
Patricia: I am legally still married. I have been separated for two years but haven’t had the money to file for divorce. My marriage was abusive and the man I was with before that for 4 years. My friends think that every relationship I’m in won’t last until I get divorced what is your opinion?
DY: I agree that being married — even though you’re separated — would be a huge red flag for many men.