Premature Sex, Insecurity And Baggage: Reasons New Relationships Don’t Last
The real person appears
In dating and courtship, we have a tendency to put our best feet forward and show only our best selves, which makes total sense. My Pastor likes to refer to these images that we show off to potential suitors as our “representatives.” But what happens when the couple becomes comfortable and the representative disappears? If the real person is only a slight deviation from the representative, nothing. However, when the real person is nothing like the person they pretended to be at the beginning of the relationship, major issues ensue.