Put The List Away: 14 Signs Your Expectations Are Too High
You speak about a lot of “ifs”
When you’re casually dating a man or when you’re in a serious relationship, you often speak using a lot of ifs. For instance, “if you really liked me, you’d take me to Vegas” or “if you really wanted to get to know each other you’d spend every weekend with me.” Speaking in terms of ifs shows that in your mind you have these set expectations that you’re looking for this guy to meet, and when he doesn’t meet them, they come out in what you say. If you can only think and speak in ifs, your expectations are too high.