You know that part in John Legend’s “Greenlight” song when Andre 3000 says “I heard you when you told your girl, ‘Oooh, he can get it.’” There’s this idea that women know almost instantly whether they will sleep with a man or not. This is partially true. A woman does know fairly quickly if a man is someone she would sleep with under certain conditions. But unlike men, a woman will change her mind about sleeping with or even going on a date with a man if the guy sabotages himself.
Let me break it down for you.