3. Do You Feel Pressured?
Having sex shouldn’t be anyone else’s decision but your own, and anyone who cares for you will want to make sure that you’re having sex because you want to. Sex is not a way to prove your love or loyalty; if your man (or woman) is pressuring you to have sex as a way to prove something to him (or her), this person is not worthy of such a precious gift. Your partner should respect your wishes until you’re BOTH ready to engage in this type of intimacy and if he doesn’t or gives some type of ultimatum…RUN. Don’t have sex because all of your friends are doing it or because they tease you about still being a virgin. Sex doesn’t make you grown, so if you’re not ready you’re simply not ready.