9. Are Your Expectations Too High?
Some women think fireworks will explode and angels will come down from the heavens the first time they have sex. While some have very legitimate fears about pain and disappointment, others think their first time will be magical. It can be but more often than not, the first time won’t be your best sexual experience ever. Also, if you think having sex with the guy that you’ve already managed to fall in love with will make him fall in love with you , think again. As stated before, sex isn’t necessarily a declaration of a person’s love and affection – he could simply want to have sex with no intention of making you his girlfriend, his wife or saying “I love you.” Sex is a way to bring couples closer, but sex doesn’t always equal intimacy. Losing your virginity is a personal choice, and you shouldn’t feel stressed, pressured or guilty about doing it. Losing your virginity should be approached with an assured, well thought out, positive attitude that brings you closer to your partner and a step towards personal growth. If you have any conditions or unrealistic expectations attached to losing your virginity, then you shouldn’t do it.