My Mom Is In My Business! How To Deal With An Overbearing Mother
2. Talk to Her About Her Behavior
This may seem like an obvious solution, but you’d be surprised how many adult children have a hard time talking to their parents. But if you are getting to the point where your mother’s overbearing ways are becoming unbearable and it’s causing a rift between you, then it’s time to sit her down and have a talk. This doesn’t mean calling your mom up and cussing her out. You must always be respectful, even if you feel your mother is being disrespectful of you – and hopefully, you’ll have a talk with her before you reach your boiling point. In a calm, neutral setting, talk to her about actions or behaviors that you find offensive or controlling. It could be that she never considered your point of view and maybe one talking to will be all that’s needed for her to back off once she knows how you feel.
