True Life: I Fell For An Ugly Man

Tracey: There’s a difference between being in love and being in lust. When it comes to “love” you overlook faults. Loving a person is loving the heart and spirit of a person. When it’s lust you only care about the physical. I think life shows some of us eventually the difference. I have been attractive to men that my friends would look at me like “girl are you alright!?!?” LOL Initially it may not be the physical but gradually after interacting with a wonderful person inside….they become more and more beautiful all around. It goes hand in hand. I’ve seen some beautiful people do ugly things and no matter how Denzel-ish they look on the outside….they are Jerome-ish on the inside. Unfortunately some people will always be shallow and never truly discover what love & life is about.

Sharon: Well, I think if you look at anything long enough, it’ll start to look good. You will get used to the ugliness and can’t see it anymore. It’s like being in a stinking room. If you’re sitting in the funk, you may initially smell it but after a while, after sitting in the room for a whille, you can’t smell it anymore. However someone coming in from the fresh air will wonder how you CAN’T smell it.

It works the same with ugly. Look at it long enough and soon you won’t see it