But He Says She’s Just A Friend! Signs That Your Man & His Friend Are More Than Homies

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4. He Compares Her to You

If every time you turn around, he’s telling you how great his friend is, only to follow up with “she’s just like you,” then don’t take that as a compliment, but a comparison. If she’s just like you, then why didn’t he date her? What sets you two apart? Most men I know who have a long time platonic female friend are men who somehow fell into the “friend zone” and have had to settle for the friendship, even if that’s not what they initially wanted. Maybe she wasn’t available to him at one point, so he’s with you until she becomes free. Or maybe she’s waiting in the wings until you mess up. Either way, if he is constantly comparing her to you –  from looks, to fashion sense, to intelligence or personality – consider that a warning sign that he subconsciously might be looking at her as more than a friend.