But He Says She’s Just A Friend! Signs That Your Man & His Friend Are More Than Homies

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14. He Dismisses Your Concerns

While it’s conceivable that you might be a bit jealous of his friendship with another female, if you have concerns about their relationship, your man should acknowledge your concerns, not dismiss them. If anything, that would be a good time for him to introduce the two of you and have you both spend some time with each other so that your mind can be at ease. But if he tells you that you’re crazy, delusional or insecure because you have a problem with his friendship, then he may not be the guy for you. First, make sure that your concerns are valid and not just you wanting him to get rid of all the platonic friendships he had before he met you. If you can honestly say that your concerns don’t stem from a place of jealousy and they both exhibit behavior that is truly suspect, then by all means confront him on it. As your man, he should want to make sure that you feel safe and secure in the relationship at all times. If he doesn’t care about your feelings at all, then all that means is he values his friendship over you…which is fine. You got your answer and now you can move on.