Nesting 101: How To Keep Moving In Together From Ruining Your Relationship
Be okay with separate beds
Not necessarily separate beds, but sleeping apart sometimes. When you didn’t live together, you probably cherished the occasional night at home alone each week. Maybe you got to stay up all night watching your favorite girly show, or you just liked to stretch out in the bed. Once you move in together, that luxury can be gone! But it doesn’t have to be. Don’t fear that something is wrong with your relationship if you or he occasionally wants to pass out on the couch for the night, or even sleep in the guest room. If it’s a regular occurrence, then you may have a real issue there. But once or twice a month, when there has been zero indication there is any trouble in paradise, is no big deal.