Hate Baby Mama Drama? Here’s How to Avoid It…

Try Not to Take It Personally

There should be no reason for your man’s ex and his child’s mother to hate you. After all, unless he cheated on her with you, there’s no reason for her to spew hate your way, right? If only it were that simple, but it’s not that easy.

Most women who have a man’s child probably thought they’d marry him. They may have even gotten pregnant purposely in order to “keep” him. If she loved him, and still does love him, she probably doesn’t like you because she’s a bitter ex harboring ill feelings; and because she can’t have him and hasn’t moved on, she focuses her resentment towards you. There’s nothing you can do about that except ignore her and try not to take it personally. You may ask your man about the relationship and how it ended, but at the end of the day, his version and her version of the relationship will always be different, so trying to understand why she doesn’t like you might be futile. Just try your best to keep your distance and allow her time to get over it. Sometimes these things just don’t make any sense, so trying to make sense of it will only make you crazy.