Are there extenuating circumstances?
Is somebody in your or your partner’s family very ill? Is one of you under extreme pressure at work? Or either of your struggling financially? This can put stress on any relationship, making it more difficult to have fun together and even to be physically intimate. But here is the truth: stress will happen with anybody. You may go to a bar, meet a guy who you think seems like Prince Charming and far more exciting than your current partner but know this: given time, that man will experience stress, will at times be a shell of himself and will fail to excite you. That is a part of life and a part of long-term relationships.