Forwardness is fine, but there is a difference between being forward and blatant aggression. If your idea of flirting is to be mean, hit him or make jokes about him that aren’t funny but annoying after a while, know that that is a bit elementary. Being nervous might bring out such behavior, but it’s definitely not cute. Schoolyard rules go out of window after 12th grade. And, while some men appreciate bossy, obnoxious and demanding women, most don’t.