Faster, Slower, More, Less: What She’s Really Trying To Tell You In Bed
Talk dirty to me
Somehow S&M dominated the world of “dirty.” Whenever someone says they are dirty or “kinky” in bed, people assume that means they are rough and rude. So, often when a woman asks you to talk dirty to her, you start calling her a “dirty Slore” and a “filthy Slore” and all sorts of other offensive, derogatory terms. That is not what we necessarily mean. In fact, it’s usually not what we mean. Try more along the lines of, “I just want to ravage you” or “I want you to ride me so hard.” Okay—so clearly, I’m not good at it. But talk more about how much you want her, and how much you want to please her, rather than offending her.