No More Bad Boys: How to Learn to Finally Start Liking Good Guys
Be comfortable reaching out
You too should be comfortable asking him out! Good guys don’t play games. They will become irritated with and tired of you if they are always the one doing the asking-out. You’re not in high school (although, if you’ve been dating bad boys, you may be used to high school behaviors). He shouldn’t be the only one making himself vulnerable. But again, if you’re dealing with a good guy, you won’t really hesitate to ask him to hang out. He will have shown you verbally, through body language and through actions that you are welcome in his life. That’s a key difference between the good and the bad boy—feeling welcome.