What’s Love Got To Do With It? Things You Really Need To Make A Relationship Work

Commitment

One reason so many relationships fail is because couples fail to define what commitment is. Cheating, lying and secrets happen when the grey area is stretched to the point where boundaries are crossed…especially when those boundaries were never really set in the first place. Plenty of men and women fall in love, but are not ready to be in committed, monogamous relationships. Love does not always presume commitment, so people need to be clear on what their intentions are, and if their needs or desires can be met by the other person. It’s important to have “The Talk” if you feel that love is creeping into your relationship – so talk about feelings, expectations and consequences so you all can be on the same page. Don’t assume that your sweetheart’s idea of commitment is the same as yours, because you could be in for a heartbreaking surprise if you don’t discuss it openly and honestly. Be brave. Be specific with your needs and honest about what you can give and what you expect in order to build a deeper connection. You can love and cherish your partner all you want, but it’s the commitment that will make your relationship last a lifetime.