What’s Love Got To Do With It? Things You Really Need To Make A Relationship Work
Communication
As I said before, couples will not always agree on everything, and conflict is inevitable. Conflict isn’t a threat to the relationship; it’s how you DEAL with conflict that determines the survival of your partnership. Poor communication skills can create distance in a relationship, or fuel anger or resentment. Communication means address the issue at hand, really LISTEN to your partner and respond to criticism with empathy and respect while not being defensive or on the attack. The goal is to find a mutual understanding or solution that satisfies you both, not to “win” the argument or “be right” all the time. Communication is not just verbal, it can be read in body language as well. Make sure to look your partner in the eye, smile and maybe even hold hands when dealing with a disagreement. Once you establish a pattern of effective communication skills, it’ll become easier and create a positive environment for your relationship to thrive.
