8 Dynamics That Should Never Exist In A Relationship

January 12, 2012  |  
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Obligatory Sex

Sometimes you say you’re not in the mood and your boyfriend sort of teases you, tickles you, tries to seduce you and get you in the mood. That’s fine. But, if you or your partner ever straight up try to make the other one feel bad or guilty for not wanting to have sex—say you become cold towards them or even go so far as to start saying mean things to them—that is a deeply disturbing dynamic. Never should someone resent you or attempt to make you insecure in order for you to sleep with them. That BS happens enough at single bars as it is. It should not be happening in a healthy relationship.

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