Okay, it happens sometimes. But it’s astounding how many couples think that frequent—maybe daily—yelling is normal. They assume that everyone yells. But guess what? They don’t. There are in fact countless happy, yell-free relationships out there. If you look back at the past month of your relationship and have a significant number of memories of yelling at one another, or even just your partner yelling at you, I hate to say it, but…that relationship has gone rotten.