How To Not Get Attached Too Quickly
How to give yourself a reality check
We asked Sorrell what questions you can ask yourself to make sure that you’re living in the present, aka reality, rather than projecting into the future with somebody. She suggested paying close attention to whether or not this individual is reciprocating your level of interest. “Are they giving the same energy, time, and interest that I am?” If the answer is no, it’s best to recognize that sooner rather than later. If we fail to see the clear signs that someone isn’t as interested, it can lead us to later feel they wronged us or betrayed us, when the truth is, they were putting it out there all along.