Where does the wall come from?
Again, self-partnering can be a positive and empowering choice. It’s just always important to be aware of potential downfalls of any new trend that’s picking up steam. In some cases, Dr. Louis says someone can choose it because it feels safer than dating somebody. “It’s typically borne out of their own pain. If they’ve experienced some really painful breakup or, in some cases, childhood trauma, they can be afraid of really opening themselves up to being hurt again. As a result, they’re hyper-vigilant about letting someone in.”