Dear Men: These Online DMs Come Off Wrong
I see you’re into X, if you ever need advice…
Ugh. The online dating form of mansplaining! It may seem like you’re taking an interest in her interests by saying, “I see you’re into insert interest here and I’d love to teach you about it,” but it actually just seems like you’re assuming you know more about it than she does. And you haven’t even spoken to her yet.