Why Controlling Men Are Drawn To You
You hate rejecting men
You hate rejecting people. You feel so sorry for them. It feels terrible to tell someone, “I don’t want to see you again” if that person seems to like you. So you’ll continue to go out with a man, so long as he keeps asking you out. Better men may sense that you aren’t into them, and let you off the hook. But the controlling man likes that you clearly won’t extract yourself from the situation, and he keeps coming back. He takes advantage of your inability to turn him down. He doesn’t mind that you’re only there because you’re too weak to leave.