Here’s Five Irrational Thoughts That Hinder Your Self-Growth
Heaven’s Fallacy
I’ve had clients that feel if they continue to put other’s first and meet everyone else’s needs except their own that they will go to heaven. Or if they hold their anger or dissatisfaction in that a higher power will reward them for suffering in silence. Being a good person and living righteously doesn’t align with neglecting your own needs. The reality is you don’t know what will happen once you leave this earth and you deserve to be rewarded now. There’s nothing wrong with sacrifice and compromise, but operating on the false belief that you will definitely go to heaven if you continously deny yourself of things you deserve is irrational.