Why His Sex Drive Dips When Yours Rises
The allure is in the safety for us
Safety is sexy to us. Knowing we are with someone who cares about us, supports us, encourages us, looks out for us, and is loyal to us—that turns us on. Knowing where we stand with someone, and that he’s with us and nobody else, that’s so attractive to us. The stability of a relationship helps us feel free to let loose sexually.