It doesn’t affect others
Even if they act like it does. And they will act like it. Your family might pester you your whole life about what your plan is or what you’re going to do with your life—as if life isn’t happening right now. If you’re genuinely content working jobs that, perhaps others don’t see the dignity in, but make you happy and pay your bills, then don’t worry about impressing them. Your family should just be proud of you if you’re a kind person.