Behaviors I Don’t Tolerate Among My Girlfriends
Taking all the spotlight
A very good friend once told me, “Today was your day, everything was about you today, and that’s fine, but can it be my turn?” And she was completely right. That day, she’d come to my performance, then stopped with me at a bar to see a guy I like, and helped me pick out furniture for my new home. Then when she asked if we could make a quick stop at a party to see a guy she liked, I said, “Eh. I’m tired. Let’s not.” And she told me what was up. She was totally right. I try to be cognizant now of sharing the spotlight among my friends.