Behaviors I Don’t Tolerate Among My Girlfriends
Anger over spoken truths
Sometimes my friends get mad when I tell them the truth—the truth about their bad relationship or the way they mishandled something. Fine. Let them be upset for a moment. I can get upset too, in their position. But what I won’t do is apologize for being honest with a friend. I don’t have the type of friend group in which we think our priority is indulging each other’s delusions or allowing stunted growth.